Mistakes in Making a Woman Cumming

By Daniel K.

How to Make Woman Cumming

I put this topic here in the context of how to last longer in bed for men, because you will have less worry about how to last longer if you can make your woman cumming quicker.

Recent research revealed that many women did not have orgasm during sex. The causes not only came from themselves, but also from their men. There were common mistakes that men did in love making so that they failed in making their woman cumming.
According to Dan and Jennifer – the author of “The Best Sex of Your Life: 101 Secrets Every Woman Should Know”, the most common mistake men did during love making was not to make their woman cumming first before penetration. Many men wanted to satisfy themselves first in lovemaking by simply doing the intercourse straight.

Men also often did foreplay in rush or too soon before they did penetration. According to Dan and Jennifer, whenever penetration has just begun, men will become more focused on himself. This is what ultimately makes female cumming fail.

What men do not realize is that many women can not reach orgasm just by penetrative sex. The chance to make a woman cumming through penetration is getting bigger if they have an orgasm through manual or oral stimulation first before the penetration or at least if they feel already extremely aroused during the stimulation. When a woman gets orgasm through penetration after previous one through manual stimulation it means that she already has multiple orgasms.

The author of book “She Comes First: The Thinking Man’s Guide to Pleasuring a Woman” – Ian Kerner the sex expert, says that a woman is able to have orgasm more that one time during sex. Unlike woman, a man once he has ejaculated, he becomes flaccid and has his sexual drive to drop drastically so he can not continue the sexual activity. He must take some time to get aroused again and to have the second orgasm.

Ladies First.
To please a woman, man needs to put her interest in the first place in every aspect of life, so in sex. It means that a man should make his woman cumming first before he ejaculate.
This rule is based on fact that most women would take at least 20 minutes to orgasm while most men would take only 2 minutes. The fact was found in the research conducted by Dr. Alfred C. Kinsey.
If a man breaks this rule meaning he ejaculates first before his woman to orgasm then he puts himself in trouble that most likely he will no longer be able to satisfy his woman.

Outside the Box Thinking
Many men want to be quick and practical during sex therefore they are always doing monotonous things in stimulating his woman. They only touch the same area of his partner’s body and the worst thing is that the area of body they touch is not the most erogenous one they know. Many of men touch only the area outside his woman’s vagina during foreplay. They have no idea that inside the vagina there is one point called G-Spot which is located around 2-5 cm deep from the vagina entrance. G-Spot is the most erogenous area, and it will give woman great ecstasy when touched and rubbed.
If G-Spot is continuously stimulated, it can make a female cumming the whole-bodily.

Recognize the clitoris
Clitoris is very sensitive area for woman because the large number of nerves (around 8,000 nerves) end in this part. So, if you give a single gentle touch on clitoris that hits even only a few nerves, the arousal sensation will spread to others.

In the beginning of the foreplay however, it is not recommended to touch the clitoris straight. The touching and rubbing should start first with the other parts of your woman’s body like ears, lips, neck, breast, nipples, down to abdomen areas then to pubic area. This whole priming session may take 10 to 15 minutes. Then clitoris and G-spot should be the last parts to stimulate.
Continuous stimulation on these parts will make a female cumming quickly.

Use Combination of Finger, Tongue and Words to stimulate.
Based on experience that Ian had from his female patients, man needs to use the combination of his fingers, tongue (oral sex) and naughty talks simultaneously or one after another during stimulation and teasing in order to make her woman cumming quicker.

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